Santa Barbara Public Library Pet Loss and Grief Support Group

Join Santa Barbara Public Library and Joan Hunter Mayer for a compassionate gathering dedicated to honoring the deep bond between people and their companion animals.

Losing a companion animal is a profound loss. Research shows that grief following the death of a pet can be as intense as grief after losing a human loved one—yet many people struggle in silence due to stigma or lack of support. Your grief is real, valid, and deserving of recognition.

This group offers a compassionate, non-judgmental space where participants can process grief at their own pace. Together, we share, listen, support, and connect. You are invited to speak if and when you feel comfortable—there is no pressure to share, and all emotions are welcome.

Whether you are experiencing anticipatory grief, navigating a sudden loss, processing a euthanasia decision, or healing from a traumatic loss of any companion animal, you are welcome here. The group may explore common grief responses, myths surrounding pet loss, coping tools, and meaningful ways to honor the profound human–animal bond.

This is a peer support group, not therapy or counseling. Partners or family members affected by the same loss are welcome to attend together. Those under 18 may attend with an adult. Advance registration is required. Space is limited.

About Joan Hunter Mayer

Joan Hunter Mayer is the founder of The Inquisitive Canine and a longtime dog behavior professional who has spent years supporting both pets and the people who love them. She is a certified grief educator and pet loss grief specialist, with a deep respect for the human–animal bond and a deep understanding of the emotional impact of losing a beloved pet. Joan brings a compassionate, grounded, and non-judgmental approach to her work, creating spaces where people feel seen, validated, and supported as they navigate grief at their own pace.